Falling
love is a magical experience which can cause a human great pleasure and joy.
However this post is aimed to highlight all of the good parts of being single.
One –
Freedom, when one is single there aren’t the pressures of checking in with
someone all the time. When you’re out having a good time with your friends you
don’t have to worry about texting a worried partner back. I addition to this
you have the freedom to make life decisions without having to consult or thing
about anyone else. For example if you want to move house across the country you
don’t have to consult or consider anyone else within reason you can just do
what the hell you like!!
Two- Money,
when you are single you quite often are better off. This is due to one not
having to pay for meals, presents, daytrips petrol etc. This also means that
you have more money to spend on yourself.
Three- Time
being single means that you have an abundance of time to spend on the things
that matter to you, you can take up new hobbies or just spend more time with
friends that you would if you’re loved up.
Four –
Guilt free farting! This point speaks for itself.
Five – Bed-room
and the full potential for a peaceful night’s sleep. When you’re single you do
not have to suffer the deafening snore of your partner or their spread eagled
pose as they take up all of the bed and blanket in the process. Instead you can
enjoy a nice undisturbed sleep in a roomy bed.
Six – No
in-laws, in my previous relationship I had relatively nice in-laws but, being
single means that you no longer have to put up with your mother-in-law’s
judgmental stare.
Seven – Relaxation
of body maintenance, obviously shaving, hair washing and deodorizing is
important however, these actions can be cut down significantly for example you
can go for a few days without shaving your southern areas without the judgement
of another. Furthermore you do not feel the immediate pressure to constantly
breath check in fear their this morning’s latte is still lingering.
Eight- The
freedom of lipstick! No longer will one’s lipstick be spoiled by smooching is
one is single.
Nine- You
no longer feel a pressure to share food.
Ten- You
have the freedom to talk to and flirt with who you like, no tabs will be kept
on you when the office hottie calls also, and no drama will be made over that
drunken kiss at the club last night if you are single. You have the freedom to
experiment as little or a much as you like. You can discover your true self and
interests. I am not condoning cheating
in any manner my point is your spontaneous drunken kiss will not cause volcanic
drama; it will just be shrugged off and blamed on the vodka.
Even though
love has its perks being single reminds me to make time for myself and consider
my own needs. In addition it allows focus on my schooling and enables me to
reflect what I want from a potential partner but most importantly it allows be
to be reckless and have fun!
Always ,
Lauren
Twitter- @LaurenCats7
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At the
moment I am reading: 1984 George Orwell
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